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How to Handle a Bully: Reframing

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REFRAMING: HOW TO HANDLE A BULLY

James Pesch welcomes you back! James is a Human Behavioral Specialist skilled in Linguistics, NLP, Mentalism, & Psychology creating content so YOU WILL “Be your own HERO.” -James Pesch

JAMES PESCH

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Intro:

HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH A BULLY?

Yesterday, Minime sat down with me to help educate others on a very simple MINDSHIFT STRATEGY™ but HIGHLY Effective for helping people Gain control over their own emotions and FEEL more in control of their circumstances.

This Shift in mindset and mentality known as REFRAMING will set you in the right frame of mind to handle your obstacles from a positive and constructive assertion and will bring more successful models and patterns to your mind in order to have better outcomes.

Use this and all my secrets to empower you to

BE YOUR OWN HERO!

Minime was having some issues with a few bullies & brought it to my attention. You have to have an “open door policy” with your children and then you have to be prepared to have an open discussion where you debate the possible solutions; allow your child to participate in the solution.

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JAMES PESCH WELCOMES YOU BACK!

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VIDEO TUTORIAL w Transcript Below thanks to WWW.ENDQUOTE.NET

 

TRANSCRIPT

James & Jayce: HEY!

James: you want to say hi?

Jayce: Hi!

James: This is Minime aka Jayce, and he goes by the gamer tag jaycerpeschwin. So if you have any kids that are gamers and want and they play minecraft or roblox or what other games can you play steam games?

Jayce: if you like fortnite,

James: okay fortnite, so there’s another one, and if you look closely he is, he is an amazing. He is very bright and just like all kids from time to time, he’s going to have to struggle with bullying and different things like that, and so he was having a littlei miss you and didn’t. Can you explain to everybody kind of how that made? You feel? How are you feeling

Jayce: I felt angry because I’m not I’m, really a great trash talker, so I try to trash them back within they just trash-talk me even more and then I just suck at trash talking back so then I get angry

James: right, and so, instead of that feeling, I didn’t want you to ask, but I don’t really encourage trash talk all that much either. That’s not really my way of dealing with stuff. So we came up with another technique. And what did you say? What did you imagine

Jayce: i Imagined that to get to either walk away or ignore them or you’re better,

 

James: so you’re, better self, and what was that?

Jayce: I imagined that I was a 10 ft tall super hero and the bully was a one foot tall super villain.

James: So? You imagine yourself as a 10 ft tall superhero and you imagine, the boy has a 1-foot all super villain and you just smashed it and whatever you did that, how that make you feel amazing, so happy did it make you feel like confident that you would be able to handle your situation better in the future?  Awesome.

So guys, that’s a technique in is called “Reframing” and jayce and I use that a lot any time that we have situations that make us feel like we’re, not powerful or that we’re not in control of the situation a lot of times. That will imagine what it would look like if we were in control of our situation and if we did half hour and just imagine that sometimes helps with staying inside in perspective and helps us to go to change the way we act and feel better right. Awesome thanks for doing this with me, man I appreciate it. If you ever want any more tricks or techniques go on over to youtube.Com forward slash jamesppesch and I have a lot of those same techniques in order to help you gain perspective.

Also, Jayce and I actually have a spelling program on youtube, where we teach you how to spell, and he wanted to show you some of the things we use there. We use color coordination to anchor our emotions, and one of my favorite things to do is to teach people how to anchor their emotions with colors. The red is confident and then the blue is to make a still calm, and then the green is by there for me, was to make me feel proud, but jason wanted to. So he feels cool whenever he sees green and that’s his favorite color thank god so much for tuning in and we will catch you very quickly with another. Well, you don’t don’t want to be with me. I really appreciate it and really honestly guys I don’t want to try to recruit my kid all the time. So I need more of you guys to get on camera and not be so scared of it, because if he can do it

Jayce: SO CAN YOU!

JAMES PESCH WELCOMES YOU BACK!

KEYNOTE SPEAKER | BUSINESS COACH | CORPORATE TRAINER | SALES TRAINER | HUMAN PERSUASION EXPERT | LINGUIST | NEUROLINGUISTIC PROGRAMMER (NLP) EXPERT | HUMAN BEHAVIOR EXPERT | TUTOR | LIFE COACH | DECEPTION TRAINER | HR & PERSONNEL COMMUNICATION ANALYST

James is a Human Behavioral Specialist skilled in Linguistics, NLP, Mentalism, & Psychology creating content so YOU WILL “Be your own HERO.” -James Pesch

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YOUR SUPPORT MEANS EVERYTHING!

Video and transcription Post coming separately & soon, stay tuned!

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